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Solid Inner
Game
By
Joe Intrigue

Copyright © 2015 by Love Systems
All rights reserved
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Motivation
There are a few strategies I have used to stay motivated to achieve a goal
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They are determined
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What you will notice is that this person runs into two types of
people
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The best example of this is being at a party and not drinking
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Some people (not nearly
as many unfortunately) will give you respect and even sometimes tell you they
wish they could do what you’re doing
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Moreover, you will find
inspiration and motivation every time you run into someone who is focused
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The clearer a goal and vision you have, the
easier it will be to stay on task
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If you give
him a bow and arrow and say, "shoot a good shot", you are being too ambiguous
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Whatever your goal is, you have to have a clear vision of it
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It’s very easy to get
halfway there and quit
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Keep motivational images, quotes, and
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They get a huge party, a title, and a diploma after
years of hard work
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The most respect and reward I believe should be given when
the person is actually working towards the goal
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This ties back in where I was talking
about admiring others that you encounter who are doing the same thing
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There is
truly no one I respect more and think is more awesome than someone who
doesn’t let anything bring him down or get in the way of achieving his or her
goals
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I have the utmost respect for people like that, and I try to do the same
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Its seems so
simple, but it has to be done 100%
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Not
only that, your identity is also how you let others define you
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If you say things to yourself like,
"I’ve always been a little lazy with things, that’s just how I am
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Or if you say, "I’ve never really been successful with
that before, it’s just not me", you will not become successful
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Once you are aware of the
way you talk about yourself, you have to form a new habit of correcting these
statements to form a more positive identity
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" Or, "I like trying new
things, and I think I would be awesome at a lot of them"
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People often define themselves with shitty labels
and let others do it too
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And all the
time people are enforcing these labels
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The best story I can use to describe this was from when I had just graduated High
school
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I always wanted to know a ton
about everything before I did it, and hadn’t experienced a lot
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I was a big believer in the "if it aint broke
don’t fix it" mentality
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If someone says we should go somewhere or try something, his
response is always the same, "I'm down"
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It was probably because of my own insecurities and fears why I was afraid
to try new things
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One day, John was over at my aunts and we all

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took a personality test
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To no surprise, I scored the worst and John scored the best
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I remember right there, I had a complete shift in my mind, and I told
them that from then on I would work on being more spontaneous and trying new
things
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I have done all of the above and
more, including changing absolutely everything about my personality, my grades
in school, my focus and determination, the way I let people treat me, my style,
the way I eat, my career, my close friends, my comfort zone, my thought
processes, and my body
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Daily affirmations
Another good way to work on your identity is to write out daily affirmations
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You want
to phrase them in the first person and about yourself
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These affirmations will contain phrases
according to your goals
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Not only that, but you will even refuse to
let anybody call you anything that goes against these new traits
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Do your own thing
This always came easy to me
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The masses are asses
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George Washington is a
powerful example
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Most people do not want to

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change or be pushed out of their habits and comfort zones, so they look at
someone who is doing something new as a threat, and often will shoot them
down
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" For this reason, you kind of have to do
your own thing, and not look to most people as a buffer
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It’s hard to find good
people to run things by
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There are ways though to get support, and that
brings me to my next point
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The absolute best way to
stay focused and to achieve success in something is to surround yourself with
people who are in the same boat as you
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This
could be a mentor, a support group, a training partner, or anybody who is
passionate about something you want to achieve
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It’s like lifting weights by yourself
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What I have
done through the years is take someone who is new to weight training, and really
excited to start doing it
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Look at
guys who train for fights
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Not only are you held
accountable, but often you are looked up to yourself, and now you have a
responsibility to help motivate others
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Modeling
Modeling is a great concept that can pretty much be defined as finding
somebody who has achieved what you want to achieve, and then modeling what
they have done
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When I want to do or learn
something, I often look to somebody who is doing it the way I would want, and
then trying to research and find out about them
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It’s not a bad idea to keep pictures of things you want around you at all times for
motivation, or to read biographies and advice directly from the source of people
who you are inspired by
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Right action (journey metaphor)
There is one thing that is inevitable, if you keep doing the right things, then
success will come
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The more times you decide to take right action towards your goal, the closer you
will get to your outcome
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If you take one step at a time, you will eventually get
there
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Exercising is the easiest way to explain this analogy
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Steps forward are things like getting a full
nights rest, a workout session, and a healthy meal
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On the other
side, staying up too late, eating shitty food, skipping a workout, are all steps
backward
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You have to realize though, that it takes a lot
of steps, and there will always be temptation for steps backwards
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Keep focused and
disciplined and enjoy the process!

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Daily Rituals and Inspiration
Hey guys,
I've just got settled into a new place, and have always wanted to get some type of
daily ritual going
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I've done a few things that really help me relax, focus, and get things done
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Here are a few suggestions
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Whiteboard is great for inspiration quotes (stole this idea from
Braddock), lists, and whatever
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Things like meditation, stretching tight muscles, clearing negativity
from my mind, visualizing success in all areas, business idea generation,
reminders to take my vitamins, etc
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She had a few pegboards in her
room with pictures of her and her friends
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Thanks to LS, I have AWESOME friends from all around the world
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I got everyone from my family and hometown friends to other
instructors
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Also a good idea to put vision board type pictures up, meaning
pictures of things you want in your life
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Affirmations
I have a mighty list of affirmations
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I also have a list of inoculations to any mental objection I can

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have
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Putting
it in the bathroom is a good idea, because you have to see that all the time
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It will be difficult
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It's going to be risky
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It is my ultimate truth and I live my life fearlessly
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I have infinite patience when it comes to fulfilling my destiny
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Id rather be loathed for who I am, then loved for who I am not
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I am a divine creation, a piece of god
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My essential nature is perfect and thoughtless
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I can't afford it
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No one will help me
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It never happened before
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I am not strong enough
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My strength comes from my connection to
my source
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I'm a creation of a divine mind
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I am too old or not old enough
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The rules won't let me
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It's too big
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I don’t have enough energy
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This passionate feeling allows me to move on
and gives me energy
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I live in the present moment while being grateful for all my past experiences as a
child
I'm too busy
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I am too scared
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Lists
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I have lists like shopping, to do, look
into, and workout schedules
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All these things seem like they would be hassle, but actually they help
tremendously to free your mind of clutter and focus on what you want
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Mindset for going out
Just wrote this in my journal today for what I remind myself when I go out
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I don’t go out in
desperation for a certain outcome or out of a mindset of scarcity
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Most
of the time when I go out I don’t even find a true 9 or 10, so the girls I wind up
talking to aren’t even as hot as the girls I actually date
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I make no apologies for my intentions as a man
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They
will never meet a guy with more game or balls than me, and if they are too scared
to talk to me then it’s always their loss, and that's fine
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I’m
basically having fun, and if a girl is cool and/or aggressive and begging for it then I
may hang out with her again
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I am internally validated
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During Future's bootcamp he also mentioned having fun as goal #1
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Even if you're in a set with a really hot girl, if she's totally boring you, it's
ok to go find someone that you can have more fun with (depending on how hot
the girl is, haha)
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It's a personal choice but I'd rather not waste my time stuck in a boring
convo trying to win someone over
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I tell myself "She's about to meet the best guy here!" Its a very
confident and very positive message to send yourself
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Your body language becomes more confident,
your
facial
expressions
and
voice
tonality
become
very
positive/happy/welcoming/etc
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So far I've gotten much warmer responses because whatever I say as
my opener sounds like "I'm about to make your day!"
I feel like I got rid of my approach anxiety (ok, most of it), but there is always some
excitement in a cold approach and if you're not careful, that may show itself
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In short, I took Future's line about takeaway's (give her the gift of missing you)
and applied it to the approach (give her the gift of knowing you)
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like you said, her loss
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This does have some variance for me depending on how I feel in
general
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What I like to
do is journal if my mind is full and write out lists of things I need to do
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Also I like to meditate before,
and even on my way to a bar or date as well
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I
repeat things to myself like "everyone is here to have an awesome time"
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What goes through my head when I see a beautiful woman?
I like to think the least amount possible when I'm out
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If I see a beautiful woman I feel excited
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I let my excitement and intention shine through in my
interactions
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I am very
accepting of women, and I know at the core they are loving and sexual creatures
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Pleasure
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Confidence
I am a true believer that confidence can't be taught (instantly) and can't be
switched on when you don’t have it
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Before my real journey
to success with women people would always tell me the same cliché advice
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) But they didn't know what
it really was, and couldn't tell me how to switch it on
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So how can you confide in yourself when you have had no previous
success with women and no game plan?
I truly feel that with an opener, a few attraction routines, basic conversational
skills, a little qualification, and a timebridge you can fill up your phone with
plenty of single women’s numbers
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Internally, I still felt I was just
using tactics to cover the real me up and wasn’t really the guy who gets girls
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Confidence shines through the most - I believe - by showing interest
I found this out through analyzing naturals and guys who get laid a lot by hot
chicks
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What they do is show direct interest
and don't apologize for it
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they don't usually get turned down and (2
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It is true that those two beliefs are related to
past successes but they can be taught tactically until they become reality
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Stemming from the two beliefs I stated earlier, I'd notice naturals
constantly hitting on girls, texting them, stating intent, making plans, and
escalating until eventually the girls caved in! It blew my mind but it made perfect

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sense, I had lost more girls from not showing interest, trying to be cool than I ever
did from escalating the interaction in any way too much
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I also noticed this in insecure women
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But they actually
were the girls who lacked confidence
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These women had true confidence
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I
usually force frame them - I believe now that cliché games are a sign of insecurity
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I slept with the '10' on a day2 and I slept with the '8' on a day3 soon after
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So
what happened after I slept with these two women? If you're reading this post
then you probably guessed right, the 8 was insecure and played games so she
didnt text or call me for four weeks when I lost interest
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What did the ten do? She texted me the next day, and the next day, then made
plans the third day and we slept together again, and texted me the next day till
eventually we started dating and she continued texting me every day and still
does
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The ten went after what
she wanted (me) and didn't care what I thought so she got to date me
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pre-selection and (2
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We have the advantage on naturals
By having a field tested game plan and staying proactive (going out consistently
and doing approaches) we have more chances of meeting women
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So by being

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proactive with tactics we have a true abundance of opportunity with women of
our choice
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With the successes and a proven and active game plan, you have two rock
solid foundations to confide in and become a fuel efficient hybrid at attracting
women!!!
We’re all with you!

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Judgment on Approaching
Here's what I use for judgment on approaching
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I've had many times where girls looked boring or over the top or
whatever
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Here's a simple
description of how your brain works
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If you approach a lot and
realize rejection doesn't kill you, you systematically desensitize this fear
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The other tactic your brain now uses to keep you safe is excuses
This feeling is what I heard called "approach reluctance
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Just before you do
it you say, wait a second, let me see something here
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All of these are excuses your
brain makes up to keep you from approaching
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Write down any excuses into my phone right when I say them to myself
I write down all those types of things I say to myself like the ones from above
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Here's an example from my personal notes
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The goal is
to not analyze but to go right away
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The eyes-feet reflex
This is kind of what I hinted at above
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The less time it takes from seeing her to approaching her, the less fear you
will have or less excuses you will make
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Go direct on girls walking by
I learned this from Braddock and Helicase over a year ago in NYC, and now it's
almost a staple at every program I go to and I do it every night I go out
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You're talking to each other and a cute girl
walks by right next to you
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When you commit yourself to these openers, they hook hard and you get really
good attraction
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You never get the chance to get introvert
and allow your brain to fuck you up
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Mental affirmations
A few good mindsets I say to myself are "I am the guy who shamelessly
approaches every woman he finds attractive"; "there is by far no one more
qualified in the bar to approach her than me
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I envision who I want to be, even if i do this at home, and I try to act like that
person: The guy who goes for what he wants
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I have a specific exercise that seems simple but works like a charm as long as you
do it! This shit is fucking money and took me a while to get right - and I still do it
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So when you want to do things out of your mind's comfort
zone (approaching strangers), it will actually try to convince you not to do it
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any of this
sounds familiar???
I learned an exercise in a great book I read that had the best advice for dealing
with negative beliefs and self talk
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Write down the exact negative thing your mind tells you
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" I have a notes app on my phone
and actually pull it out in the bar and sometimes even in set and write
down the negative things my mind says
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This is the most important part - realize the negative thought is not gospel
and reframe the statement into a more positive one that is the truth
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I'll give you an example of the exercise
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Reframe
Actually, I'm just making a stupid assumption here
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I can't

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even count the times a girl looked unhappy, then lit up like a christmas tree when
I approached her
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I'm
actually doing her a massive favor of giving her the priviledge of talking to me
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Next time you have that negative thought, your mind is going to attach to the
positive statement above as long as you're accurate with what your mind said and
you actually type out and do this exercise
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I do it all the
time for a lot of stuff
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If you keep trying to fight off negative self-talk and beliefs, it's like
putting out fire with gasoline
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This shit helped me a lot and is what I
teach anyone who has negative thoughts (which I think is any normal human
being)
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I guarantee it will help
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- Joe
On a side note, I was watching Gene Simmons's TV show, which I actually like, but
haven’t watched in a long time
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It was super emotional and very helpful to confront shit and bring it out in the
light
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Just like with the negative thoughts as
with experiences
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They grow and grow
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Especially negative self-talk that is often bullshit
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Your
mind is trying to protect you at all times, but what often happens is you miss out
on some greater things
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a wise and trusted counselor or teacher
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an influential senior sponsor or supporter
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This has just hit me recently, as I have
made some solid connections with people who have helped me immensely on my
current journey to success
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It can be fitness,
business, a particular skill, or anything really
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What do you do? Well if you are reading this, then
you already posses the first and most important quality to improving your life,
and that is open-mindedness
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It sounds simple, but most people, especially men, are
too stubborn to ask for help
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So what can you do to learn a new skill?
Trial and error
Go out and just work at it
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You could just go
to bars and try to talk to them
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This is the hardest and longest way to master
something
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In our day and age, there is a wealth of information
everywhere
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With things like the internet,
there is enough information to learn almost anything, and to keep you busy your
whole life
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The idea is to
find someone who is getting the results you want, or living the life you would like
to lead, and model their beliefs and actions
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So the best way to
learn is
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The more face time or interpersonal communication, the faster you
will grow
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Here are some ways to find a mentor
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It’s in your
best interest to learn from the best person you can
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Sometimes the best people can be very difficult to reach,
but often times it can be as simple as sending them an e-mail
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-Offer them value
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They may or may not be
interested, but it is never a bad idea to put out the idea of a value exchange
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If someone is really awesome at something then odds are they will be
busy and not willing to give out their time and expertise for free
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Imagine being one of very few experts in your field and being offered a job with
no pay? The best way to learn from a solid mentor is to hire them to coach you or
take their seminars
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I hire help as often as I can
nowadays
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CONCLUSION
I hope you enjoyed and will apply the lessons I have given you here in this book
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