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The Mystery Method
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1 OVERVIEW
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THE BASICS
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2 PREPARATION 11
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AWARE STATE
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Pre-approach observation
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The Approach
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Presentation 15
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Maintenance
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FIND
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KISS CLOSE 28
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QUICK CLOSE
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ADVANCED
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Group set theory
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PICK UP ARTIST 37
NAMES for WOMEN
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OPENERS
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PULL MY FINGER NEG 39
# CLOSE
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ESP ROUTINE
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PHOTO ROUTINE 41

LITTLE GIFTS
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COMPLIMENT:
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STRIPPER RULES 44
SOCIAL PROOF
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PRACTICE WITH RECORDER
PHOTO ROUTINE 46
ATTRACT 47
ROUTINES 49
BITCH STRATEGIES
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FIND 52
AWARE STATE
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CLOSE
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POLYAMORY
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LESS IS MORE
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3S RULE: 3 second rule
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SIGNS of INTEREST 59
MAKING OUT
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INTRODUCING YOURSELF
DRINKS
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COMPLEMENTS
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PHONE RULES
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PIVOTING or the TAKE AWAY
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CLOSE
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Emotions
AFC Psychology
Makes Excuses for Own Desires
Supplication
Poverty Mentality - "There's this one girl
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Focus on being a good PUA, not on getting laid
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Rapport
Mirroring
Body Language
Eye Contact
Strategies
FMAC and the Mystery Method - Brief Mention
The Mystery Method
Approach
** The Three Second Rule **
O p e n Overview
A t t r a c t Overview
C l o s e Overview
Openers
Routines
Closes
Neg Theory
Most People Misunderstand Negs
Use these in a targeted fashion
Group Tactics
The Target
Obstacles and Disarming
Pawns
Social Proof
Pivots
Different Group Scenarios

Compliments
No AFC compliments!
Use these in a targeted fashion
Kino

Don't expect to "accidentally" brush up against her and then have her throw
herself at you
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With Kino, you have to be the man, not the chick
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Touching
Kissing
Dancing
Erotic Touching
Oral Sex
Fucking
Take-Aways
The Telephone
The Wingman Manifesto
Rules for Working with a Wingman
Wingman Strategies

Basic Dating Rules
The classic dating frame puts too much pressure
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End the date
Troubleshooting and Field Reports
Do Your Groundwork and Chick Logic Works in Your Favor!
Feedback not Failure, Your Skills are Always Improving
Terminology

Editors Preface

Briefly
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0 INTRODUCTION

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You will
learn strategies for dealing with your emotional states
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This field guide is designed for the soldier of love who can
already get girls
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The Mystery Method is a practical system collaboratively designed by experienced pickup artists for the benefit of lesser experienced pick-up artists
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The author has devoted a large portion of his life to the art and science of seduction
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Several problems arise from setting such an goal
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If you were only to approach the women that you considered
potential long term girlfriends, you would simply never gain the experience required for
the rare time when a woman of particular beauty comes along
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From this reasoning,
Mystery's first rule was created
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Without the acquired skills you will not be able capture the one girl you may currently
obsess over
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Since
you have already failed to win her the first time you met you have entered into the
damage control zone
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RULE: Don't obsess over any ONE girl
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Figure what went wrong and fix
them for the next girl and don't get in the damage zone
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That's the KEY EMOTION
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1 ANATOMY OF THE PICK-UP
Every time a pick-up artist (PUA) approaches a woman, there is a beginning, a middle
and an end to the scenario
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After he meets her (initiating
the chat)he must break the ice (bitch shield disarming) and engage her in conversation
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Finally he must be aware of her attraction to him and correctly choose to
either eject himself from the situation in a pleasant manner or more favorably close her
by getting her to agree to see you again
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Any Pick Up Scenario
Begin
Middle
End
FMAC System
Find
Meet
Attract
Close
Figure 1
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The five characteristics of an ALPHA-MALE are:
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The very first moment your TARGET sees you is of you smiling
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Convey a
playful appearance
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Smile widely when you enter a room and keep faking it as
you walk around
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Smile on the approach as well
as before
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Well groomed
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Women
judge a man by his shoes
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Don't wear old clothes
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Don't appear very shy in your approach
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Convey independence
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A good sense of humor
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Be playful
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No slurring nor heavy slang
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Make her feel an emotional connection with you
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PUA EQUIPMENT LIST
When going out to play the game, consider arming yourself with the following:
* Nice clothing - well dressed but not too dressed up
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* Whore lure - perfume
* Haircut and shave
* Clean under your nails
* Wear clean underwear and wash your cock
* Carry a wad of cash (borrow it for flash cash if you must)
* Pencil and a pad - for getting and giving contact info
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- to have a friend take a pic of you and your
new girlfriend
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Interesting necklace or ring
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Pack with extra condoms
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AWARE STATE
Emotions are motivator circuitry hard-wired into your brain, designed by natural
selection over the last billion years
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In other words, instead of looking at emotions as limiters, look at them as indicators
telling you what your body believes is MOST IMPORTANT to you
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And so
the humans with the HUNGER gene would have an evolutionary advantage and replicate
more, giving off more HUNGER gene babies than the non-HUNGER gene babies who
many times died sooner
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So, when you are lonely, this is a strong indicator that something must change
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Some people
even TRY to do that
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Thing is, notice how this emotion will motivate you to get the fuck
out of your house for a change? If you are lonely, this is a great sign that your body and
your mind (these are not two separate things as your brain is a part of your body) are
functioning properly and it is telling you (like HUNGER) that you will increase your
selfish gene's chance of survival (by replicating) if you get out and hunt
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Thing is, imagine if you
DIDN'T masturbate again until you got a girlfriend
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SO how do we use these two emotions to motivate us in proper ways? Use your
reasoning to prioritize what is important to you in a global lifelong perspective
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We are ants in a colony of 7 billion
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But it wasn't 'designed' to
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See? Humans too are not designed to live
in a lonesome environment
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Our
environment INCLUDED other humans and we adapted motivators to deal with others
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Disciplined focus
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build a plan
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PHYSICAL PREPARATION
Be active
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Tone your body
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Convey 'success'
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Roller blading
Many women roller-blade
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Is there one near the beach? Have a portable CD player and get two headphones and a Y
splitter so you can listen to music with a girl you've invited together
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This allows you to talk about the car you almost
hit or the hill you almost didn't make
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Get a photo for the rock
climbing close
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Know your routines - internalize
Don't EXCUSE yourself to death: e
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: mike = I have a girl
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ANATOMY of the PU

How do I seduce someone?
This is the most common question and the response is always the same
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Seduction is not about some secret power or magic spell that will make
people automatically fall in love with you
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Sort of like a Swiss army knife for your
personality, so you have a tool for any situation
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What I can't do is give you some love potion that will
instantly make anybody love you
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However, if what you are looking for is a place to learn about skills that you can use to
become a seducer, then you've come to the right place
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It is generalized so it
can be of more use to more people, so if you need more specific questions answered,
scroll to the bottom of the page and click on the Ask Odious button
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This means taking the time to actually observe things about someone before you go
running up to seduce them
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See if you notice
anything about them that might be useful
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When you do this, try to pay attention to things other than physical attributes
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The Approach
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It's when you actually walk
over and meet this new person and introduce yourself
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It really is
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Because that fear will trip you up more than
anything else if you let it
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If you did step
one, you should have something to comment on other than just saying "nice ass
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That's all it takes
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So don't sweat it if the person you approach isn't interested
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How you present yourself depends on you and what you
have to offer
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I can't tell you how to be yourself
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Because the only one who can know what's best for you in your situation, is
you
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Don't kiss their ass to try and get them to
like you
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RULE: The second rule is that you learn from your mistakes
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Everybody messes up now and then, but very few ever take the time to
understand why they messed up
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Mistakes highlight areas that need improvement,
and thus allow you to know how and where to focus your energy
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Don't settle for less that what you desire and deserve
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Have fun, use humor, be playful but most of all be yourself
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Learn about them
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There are two categories for closes
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A number close means you get a phone number and agree to call or
meet again
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Men and women
both worry about being too forward at this point and thereby scaring the other person off
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You just need to give them an opportunity to do so
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Maintenance
If you make someone feel good, they are going to want more
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There are a whole lot of tools
and techniques to accomplish this like anchoring
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FIND
Where to Go
Ask girls how THEY solve this problem
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"I'm single
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I'm thinking more long term
here
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Where are they? This
place seems dead
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They will tell you
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ASK
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RATING SYSTEMS
Many interesting systems for rating women have been devised over the years, some
ridiculously elaborate such as Outfoxing the Foxes' CUPID Rating System (see Index)
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Therefore, a new simple and practical mental map of the
social terrain has been drawn to aid the PUA in the FIELD
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The main
purpose of a rating system is so the PUA can calibrate his particular approach to fit the
social status of his TARGET
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The PUA decides whether or not a woman is worth
APPROACHING
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The
problem with this system is that it does not differentiate a regular cute BABE from a
SUPER HOT BABE; it is simply
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The PUA must somehow calibrate his
approach to fit her social status and this rating system does not aid him in that task
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The Decimal Rating System (whereby one rates a woman from one to ten), while
extremely popular, is neither accurate nor terribly practical in the FIELD
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5 may be considered an 8 by another
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While it is oftentimes great fun to argue
with your buddies on whether a particular girl is a 9
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This system however is good when recanting stories to
others about the TARGET in a particular scenario
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They are ugly, babes, hot babes and super hot babes
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Attempting to categorize a woman by race, ethnicity, or sub-culture (Goth
girl or rocker) has been found to be far too cumbersome
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5
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UG (ugly)
8 to 8
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Not used for practice as their behaviors are very different from that of the
HBs and which should be your TARGETs
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picture of UG
B
These are cute girls and worth chasing when you have been in a slump and need a pick
me up
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picture of babe
HB
This is where you want to hunt
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picture of HB
SHB
This is reserved only for supermodels, playmates, penthouse pets, etc
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Generally
no woman goes above a 10 except when her social proof is so high she damn well
deserves it
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Say hi
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Don't make it seem like you are
trying to pick them up
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They will in fact question in their minds
why you are talking to them
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Certain OPENERs are good for CERTAIN
scenario types
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Go in and perform the
opener
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It is not a time to hit on her
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Its is not
a time to complement her
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All OPENERs begin with a big SMILE
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Not NERVOUS looking
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You are NOT to insinuate you have

some form of sexual attraction to her
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An opener is not merely an opening LINE
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OPENING does not mean merely
INITIATING the chat but actually OPENING her shield
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So she will over time create or learn several natural strategies to get rid of all the
interruptions from these men
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The Proximity Alert System
When a PUA walks into a FIELD (store, cafe, nightclub, etc
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Have you ever walked into a
nightclub and found yourself standing near a woman you were attracted to
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Have you ever been in a store shopping where it seemed that
a woman you had seen earlierstood near you several times over the short period of time?
While you can never be 100% certain, her repeated proximity should indicate a potential
interest
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picture of woman near me (beth holding and her friend watching?) or a circle chart
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Crack a half smile, and pull out
the Pez (A small candy dispenser (index))
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you can use it anywhere and it always gets a laugh
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PUA: "Didn't your mom warn you about taking candy from strangers?"
TARGET: "Yeah
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And it's bad for your teeth
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"
PUA: "Isn't it funny how what's dangerous can be so exciting?" Transition to a
ROUTINE or a CLOSER
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Absolutely NOTHING can wreck it
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Continue to

PICTURE OPENER
Walk up to this 10 and say, "Hi
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They will usually think you are hitting on them at which point you say, "could you take a
picture of my friend and I?" Good subtle neg
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yes?" MUST transition to a
good story right away like this, "Thanks
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that pictures with people
looking at the camera are not nearly as interesting as action shots? Well, what sort of
action shot should we take?"
BOOKSTORE OPENERS
Buy a bag of gummy worms and hide one in your hand the next time you target a woman
in a bookstore while she reads a book
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" Pretend to pull the gummy worm
from her book and then humorously bite its head off
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Carry it with you in your bag
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That is an attractive quality
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Lets play Frisbee
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If a girl is alone
reading you can throw the Frisbee right by her and say, "umm
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could you get that one more time?" Then do it AGAIN
and say, "you know what? If you were to put that book down it sure would make our
little game of Frisbee more fun
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Imagine a girl is walking
along the street and you want to meet her
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"Here, catch
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Come
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Catch
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Can you imagine? And do you
know what I did? I took this Frisbee and knocked him out with it
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Oh yeah
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Im the bear
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Bean me
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Try come on, I'm the big scary bear, grrrrrr
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now of COURSE I do
NOT use it to # close (I carry pencil and paper for greater warmth) but I DO transfer the
#s into the scheduler soon after I leave the public gathering
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"You seem underwealmed - what are you looking for? Type to reply
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unless
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"
you can also use just pencil and a pad of paper should a scheduler is not in your
possession
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Remember to have a smile on your face
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"Did you know he was from
England?" "Did you know he was hung like a race horse? That's right
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" I've been working this opener and it works all the time
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" Then agree with her beliefs
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Either: "How the hell can
people still believe in witchcraft in this day and age? I mean, what do I tell my best bud?"
Or: "Have you ever cast a spell on someone? Have you ever had a spell cast on you?
Then why do you believe it? What evidence?" Don't be a YES man, actually hold your
own ground but be TACTFUL so you don't begin an argument
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It was a blast
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do you
have a cigarette?"
OPENER: "Shh! people can see us!"
If only I had a book on Madrid
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Im a poet and don't even know the implications - in bookstore
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- many AFCs believe that he must make the girl
HOT or HORNY for him
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Getting a girl is a PERFORMANCE art
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It doesn't work - there is no NEED for a picture
with her
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To give the camera to the
girl and take her beer bottle and ask her to take a picture when you say NOW and levitate
the bottle and take a picture and then give the bottle back and she can then immediately
look at the photo and show her friends makes you the MAN of the hour
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Without fail, she replies
"good at what?" or
"what exactly do you mean?"
I say "well, you've been talking to me for just a short while and you've already got
your hand on my shoulder/my
hand around your waist/whatever"
20min
question game
5min
the music game
2min
Elvis and his hair
15min
ESP - is it real?
5min
titanic connection pattern
5min
the ant farm I bought for my niece and what I learned
10min
my friend Tal likes this girl but is having problems
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* or the time you were in the hospital and it changed the way food tastes
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* or the time you netbused (hacked) into a bank but chickened out and put the money into
a charity - be a hacker not a computer nerd
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what does SHE like?
* the music game modified for all types of objects
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talk about the time
you were on stage

NEGS
A NEG is a qualifier
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Its not an
insult, just a judgment call on your part
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a 10 can get 3 negs up front, while an 8 only 1 or 2 over a
longer time
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you can
drop the self-esteem right from under them (just like most 10s do to guys) and this isn't
good
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Once you have gotten her RIGHT THERE, you can startappreciating things about her
(NEVER LOOKS)
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Something most guys never get
from the girl
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A neg holds two purposes: 1
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2
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when she says, "you are a pig", you reply
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You are making her feel
subconscious and therefore thinking about how she can change your impression of her
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But you are so matter of fact that she finds it difficult
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If she isn't, be like Rhett Butler: The girl says, "You sir are no
GENTLEMAN!!" And he says with a smile "And you ma'am are no LADY :)" So be
playful and confident at the same time
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Gain social skills
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Learn how to talk
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when she is TESTING me I neg her, then Im
polite again
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You get a 10 through her EGO issues
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She has put on this BITCH act
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All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings - beautiful people have
it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it
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So her values are very honed and understood
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While the guy thinks he's
doing something nice for her, she gets this ALL the time
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You
are the 8th guy TODAY! So she is very good at brushing all these guys off
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she isn't going to sleep with ALL of them! So she may say NO or act
annoyed and then the guy thinks she's a bitch and walks off pissed and feeling like a
failure
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Sometimes when the girl is particularly in a feeling of
control (like in a club where she is PREPARED for the barrage of men - it IS after all
something that occurs so often that when it is GONE she MISSES it) she will accept the
beer and then flake the guy off
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When they take a beer from you, the girl is saying to you, "I don't
know you and I don't care about you
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"
Since an HB is so GOOD at snuffing your approach (nothing ever personal either - it is a
strategy that is built over years of stupid guys approaches EVERY FUCKING DAY, she
will do the same to YOU
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You cant
INSULT them because they are used to all the hurt guys INSULTING them ("ahh you are
nothing but a bitch!") so this rolls off their back like water off a muskrats ass
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Now why do 10s dress so FINE if they don't want the attention?
Because they LOVE the feeling of control sometimes
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The guys come and buy drinks for them and she gets off on knocking the
guys down
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OK, so she is wearing fake nails to look even BETTER!
Most guys will say, "wow you are so beautiful!" BORING, typical and in her mind by
now (after years of the same shit) TRUE
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are they real??" she will have to concede, "no
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" and he says (like he didn't
notice it was a put down "oh
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" Then he turns
his back to her
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He complimented her but the result was to target her insecurity
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but I didn't win this guy over
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ILL just fix that little smear on my
image that he has of me
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During this her intention is to get you to become
like all the other guys so she can feel in control and snuff you and you then give her
another NEG like this
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what do you call this
hairstyle? The waffle? :)" Smile and look at her to show her you are sincerely being
funny and not insulting
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This will
intrigue her because she KNOWS guys
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You must have really high
taste, or be used to girls or be married or something
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So this keeps happening and is known as FLIRTING
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You pass them by neg hitting her back
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But
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That is all she is about - this strategy is all
she knows and it's not working for you so she is trying to do damage control on the
situation
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After all, her nails ARE fake
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you nose moves
when you speak
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its so
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hheeeee look " :D She'll say, "ahhh, stoppp!" :) *blush*
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You have with 3 neg hits successfully
created INTEREST (curiosity) and removed her from her pedestal (removed her bitch
shield
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You didn't take her shit
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I don't
buy girls drinks
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You are qualifying HER now
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If not you say, "pleasure meeting you"
and turn your back to her again
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You are neg
hitting them again just when they thought she was negging YOU
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That is the first step to flirting
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A NEG is a qualifier
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It's not an
insult, just a judgment call on your part
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A 10 can get 3 neg up front, while an 8 only 1 or 2 over
a longer time
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You have to get as close to the breaking point as you can without crossing the line
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There is a mutual RESPECT now
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This is how you remove a bitch shield
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Once it is down, you can from a place of mutual respect, CLOSE
her
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"

HER: "Why?"
HIM: "I think you are just too much of a NICE GIRL for me
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watch this
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This is good
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HIM: Makes fart sound (not a REAL fart
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No honest this is good
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) Oh MAN! THAT'S TWICE!!! I cant' believe you! My NIECE is 6 and
doesn't fall for that anymore! man haaa!"
The PUA may decide to say, "I'm just kidding
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I'll show you some
magic
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My hand is empty right? Ok, really pull my finger
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Serious
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Magician's honour! No, swear
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" She pulls your finger
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) "Oh my God you can get talked
into ANYTHING!"

HER: "What do you do?"
HIM: Literally, figuratively, or philosophically? I seduce beautiful women
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"
HER: "Well it ain't workin' on me
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I'm into living LIFE
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You have to consciously PLAN activities
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I'm your success coach
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"

After the KISS CLOSE say, "Alright settle down
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"

If your TARGET says, "You are so young", this is an indicator that they are actually
interested in you
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Only guys trying
to get the girl would do that
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poor you
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"Take a quiet moment to get over this age thing
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"

"You only 18? Shit, your just a kid
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"I really don't like ladies under 30, they don't have a clue how to give good head"
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may
I finish my sentence first?" You then say to others in the group, "Is she always like that?"

If you are asking a question to two women and the TARGET answers you say, "I didn't
ask you silly
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When the TARGET goes to see them say, "Excuse me! Im showing HER
the pictures not YOU
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"

"Oooh
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You just spit on me!"

If a girl kisses you on the cheek and goes to kiss your other cheek, tell her, "Only one
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"
If she says, "Yes, but Im French", you reply, "Are all French girls as greedy as you?"
or "I heard the French invented lovemaking but we Germans perfected it
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(pause)
well I guess they still LOOK good
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it that your real hair?" Smile and look at her to show her you
are sincerely being funny and not insulting
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haaaa, its so cute
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its so
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hheeeee looky"

"Ewww, your palms are sweaty
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"I like that dress
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It IS nice though
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"My you come on strong
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"Very good
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"

"Wow
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"

HER: "I'm a model
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"
HIM: "I think they were just being polite
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"
HIM: "What, like a hand model or something?"

HIM: "What do you do?"
HER: "I seduce beautiful women
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"
HIM: "Well it ain't workin' on me
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"

HIM take a gum out and offers it to his TARGET
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Im drinking beer
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Take the gum
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7
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but in order for us to do this I think you have to ask me
something
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Basically, there are 4 CLOSES
1
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CLOSE - you snack with her and get her #
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The # CLOSE - you JUST get her #
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The NOGO - you DON'T get a # nor anything else and you never see
again
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The Kiss

her

If you don't want to do 1, at least attempt for 2
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It you cant get 3, then you get 4 automatically
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) then you must consciously SWITCH your approach from this FUN
PLAYFUL GUY to CUDDLY
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Just tell her, "come here" and cuddle
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Then say, "would you like to kiss me?"
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1
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if it DOESN'T happen if would NEVER happen
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---------------------------------------------------------------------------"Would you like to kiss me?"
If she said no, you reply
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"Wow
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"
Don't say a word
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don't ask WHY
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If she says, "why?", "what do you mean" or "I donno" it means she DOES (but is
shy about it) and doesn't know how to go about it, reply with a glean in your eye,
"lets find out
...
"
"because you want to kiss me and I want to kiss you
...
Remember to caress the back of her neck to show you
mean business :)
---------------------------------------------------------------------------"I want to kiss you
...
"
"Do you like having your neck bit? why? Because right now all I want
to do is bite your neck
...
Only if she says no
do you NOT bite her neck playfully) its a modified CLOSE : a neck bite close
...
" Then slowly go up to her face and suck on

her tongue
...
I found just going for the kiss without
indicating your intentions can sometimes lead to embarrassment - more
than her saying NO
...

---------------------------------------------------------------------------2
...
2
...
forget it
...
hmmmm, OK, here's the plan
...
BUT! You need gear so Ill borrow some off my good
buddy
...
I need more frivolous things in my life
...
sound like a plan?"

"sounds good
...
"
"oh
...
maybe we shouldn't do this
...
Im going to end up corrupting you
...
this isn't good
...
"
"maybe Im already corrupted
...
G
...
Meet me there
...
" I was negging her
...
I said, "pleasure meeting you",
and got up to leave
...
She soon gave
me her #
...
my hair was down, I touched their hands more, and I
just WENT for the CUDDLING (I would put my mouth to her ear
and inhale and whisper how good she smelled and then nuzzle in
...
NUZZLING
...
we are usually FAR
too intellectual! fuck analyzing
...

---------------------------------------------------------------------------2
...
3
...


---------------------------------------------------------------------------"You are going to ask me 3 questions and I promise to answer
going to ask you for your #
...
then Im

---------------------------------------------------------------------------"You cant leave
...

"Your train is coming
...
Why?
my train - I already got off but wanted to meet you and
you forced me to meet all your friends first :P"

Cause its not

See, negging and then going for the CLOSE is good because you are now
showing interest finally
...
pause for effect
...
"
---------------------------------------------------------------------------"you realize, the time issue here is an illusion - you don't HAVE to go
...
"
---------------------------------------------------------------------------You: "for this to happen you have to ask be a question
...
fair? "
---------------------------------------------------------------------------You say, "Well, It was really nice meeting you
...
" If she is interested in your by
now, she will say, "Why?" This is the beginning to flirting
...
:)"

If she doesn't say anything
...

You're shy
...

When she does, say
...
but we can exchange #s
...
Tell them that you write down
every creative idea you come up with and you have hundreds of these pages at
home
...
Give her the pad of paper and the pen and say,
"Impress me
...
" When she says,
"I don't know
...
start with the first 3 #s
...
We could market this idea and make millions
...
Say, "What do you
think? Creative?" She will say, "Oh YES, very!!
:)"
When you are CLOSING and getting the phone number, remember to tell her
what your RULES are for phone conversations
...
How are you? Its GREAT to hear from
you! So sweet of you to CALL! I was just thinking about you
...
"
"what?"
"I'm wondering if it would be a good idea for us to meet again, and if
we would have a great time together
...
"
---------------------------------------------------------------------------"When you give me your number, bring the pen over here from the bar
to give you my number too!"
---------------------------------------------------------------------------"Before I give this to you, I have a question
...
(pause)
...
"

I like romance (evil

---------------------------------------------------------------------------"I'd love to hear more of this, but I NEED to get some coffee so I have
to go to the Starbucks on blah street and blah street
...
"
---------------------------------------------------------------------------"I am going out to eat, but I don't like eating alone
...


---------------------------------------------------------------------------me: What steps should we take to continue this?
girl: Well, you can give me your #?
me: I don't give my # usually - how bout we trade
...
"
me: It looks like we have met an impasse
...

me: It was a pleasure meeting you
...

me: (waiting, having turned my back for a time to make her feel like that was it)
...
We should get together for coffee so we can talk some more
...
do not close until you have a pretty good
certainty that they are (see body language)
...
or sat?
ESP joke
give necklace
I want to see you again
you want to see me again
lets get together again
I like you
what's your #? (Have pencil ready)
I want your #
2
...
4
...
Instead of going away in a huff, you simply
say, "pleasure meeting you :)" then turn your back
...

standard because you are treating them like they are a kid and they really behave the
same, all of them
...
make it look
like not getting the # didn't bother you in the slightest
...
Now it is HER choice to chase you
...
especially pretty girls are very
susceptive to this because they get attention all the time
...


3
...
Expect to meet 12 girls in a day (give or take)
Expect to get out 4 evenings a week
...

Group set theory
Finding is something that most men think is easy
...
I enjoy the company of particularly beautiful women (ratings
9+) and these are for technical reasons (such as ratio to population) hard to come by
...
I have gone out with models, singers, exotic dancers, bar-tenders, even a private
eye :) I must admit I have been with a few not so good looking girls too (my first
girlfriend, in retrospect, was a 6!) 'Finding' issues include, increasing your chance of
meeting beautiful women, available women, a high enough ratio of women in a given
area to increase your statistical chances of the successes
(RULE: the more doors you knock on the more will open
...
Say, a club from 10pm to 2am
...

RULE: Plan your strategy for FINDING women
...
Know your city
...
Minimize waste of
time by getting there a bit early to you can settle in
...
This
makes you seem like every other guy
...
I get on
average 2 or 3 drinks bought for me in a given 4 hour session
...
Alcohol does NOT loosen you up
...
It is an excuse to alter your feeling of 'fear'
...
Sober people have more reaction time with which to process information
...
G
...
sitting at a table, guy is sitting closer to the one you want
...
ANSWER BTW is actually an easy one here: Approach the other girl
...
She is
an obstacle to the other girl
...
Do not HIT on her of course
...
Why
...
BE attractive but don't hit on anyone
...
Talk to the guy too
...
Make the guy your friend
...

You are charming and funny and have much to say about his areas of interest
...
the
friend gave you her approval through laughter
...
If she is in fact free for the taking, you disarmed the potential bombs already
...
Depending on her rating you begin the attack
...
two entirely different strategies
...
9+s are so used to this attention you must give them 3 negs first like "Those are
very nice nails you have, are they real?" When she admits they aren't (most 9+s have fake
nails) you say, "oh
...
See what happens in their
mind is this: "Most guys think Im the bomb
...
But this guy doesn't think
that
...
No worries, Ill just fix that
...
You weren't an
asshole about it, you just showed her you noticed a flaw but were polite about it
...
She is chasing you
...
"Ha! Your nose
moves when you talk
...
No, really, its so cute
...
" 9s and 10s don't GET
treated this way
...
Like someone you can joke around with
...
To be accepted and this is what you are doing
...
So she tries to solve this
little issue
...

Conversing
...
You can NEVER ask a 10 for her
#
...
You are different
...
" As you start walking away, you then
say, "For an outgoing girl, you are pretty shy after all
...
You say, "because I'm leaving
silly
...
so this
shows your confidence and coyness
...
Notice none of these
NEGS are really BAD
...
You are
now waiting for her to say something - just staring at her
...
She is a 10
and she knows it
...
You never really HIT on her
...
You were
about to leave without asking her for her #
...
You
MUST have girls chasing you from the attitude you are displaying
...
with regards to her giving you her phone #, say, "Yep
...
" and walk
away with a smile
...
In this case you
have played on her ego to actually WANT to make you LIKE her and she will now be
open to getting together again
...
She is now having to prove her social
abilities to you
...
Anything she says will come
out flirtatiously but you accept it with OPEN ARMS baby
...
When she does, say
...
but
we can exchange #s
...
If you get around to
asking for her # and she says, "Ill call you" just say, "no, Ill call you
...
After a
girl DOES girl her # to you, you may then write yours for her as you say, "We'll trade
...
" "Nice meeting you
...
" "I'll call
you this weekend
...
You were hard to catch
...
You aren't
an easy guy
...
You were a challenge
...

Well, hopefully, she still has to call you now! now when you are on the phone with her,
you say "You know, you dropped something when we were last together
...
where did we leave off?" She will um
and ah and you say, "Oh yes, we were flirting with eachother
...

Mystery PS: the scenario I just told happened to me several times exactly as is
...
The girl was a 10! TV quality and single-handedly the
best looking girl in the club
...
I have her
#
...
If not, Ill wait till Sunday to call her
...

In fact there is NO such thing as a LINE
...

Your ROUTINES should be loosely based outlines
...
Remember the basic outline of the routine
...
She's EXPECTING that from a guy
...
Don't
take the bait and start hitting on her
...
Here's a good one after you have
initiated conversation through a non sexual topic and she has bitten into the game of

chatting
...
watch this
...
This is good
...
No honest this is good
...
She will now feel a little dumb, but you were just being playful so she wont HATE
you and call you and asshole
...
SHE is TRYING to impress YOU
...
Remember it
...
Its playful
...
SEGWAY: segway
something from one ROUTINE to another
...
ROUTINE: My ant farm
...
Well actually, I
bought MYSELF an ant farm
...
Ill tell you it later!
PICK UP ARTIST
Player
Womanizer
Pick-up artist
Speed Seductionist
Steel Ball man
Seducer
Don Juan (sp
...
I don't
personally care to have the word Speed in it as its not all that 'romantic'
...
Also, SS calls scripting patterns
...
I've been calling it a HIT
...
Did it go? no
...
They aren't really connected but people
will think that
...
I picture them as
outwardly SEXUAL and very fast
...
Like in Swingers A seducer chases innocent women like in Dangerous Liaisons A
womanizer does it for the money (I could be wrong about my definitions, Im just writing
my impression - which could be easily swayed by reply posts) like the guys in Dirty
Rotten Scoundrels A ladies-man? Rhett Butler professional assholes are comedians What
are YOU? Out of this I hope to find a common ground of what is the best to be
...
Womanizer? Me? I don't think so
...
I
don't sleep with every girl I 'pick-up'
...
But I don't want to be known
as a guy who 'picks up
...
There it is, just pick it up
...
Sure
...
Im maybe an attractionist or an attraction artist
...
How

about a Lone Wolf
...
I'm more into the Hunt
...
Ahh, so many metaphors
...
I want to be able to tell someone what I am and have
them not think Im a sexist pig
...
I guess you could call me a LOVER
...
He picks up a rough girl who's been bashed around once too often
and polishes her up
...
Naw, I prefer women who already have it together in their heads
...
Some are agriculturist womanizers
...
OK, sure it can work, but while you are waiting
...
"
"I'm here
...
"
"Do I have a tan?" - "I really like tan lines
...
Not a farmers tan now, I
don't think seeing a beautiful woman with beautiful pale skin and red arms as sexy
...
"
"I prefer a cold Pepsi over a warm one
...
Don't do it! You'll start growing hair in places you
would prefer remained hairless
...
"
If a girl is on a cel phone and gets off, look down at your beeper and say, "Did you just
page me? Sneaky girl! Very good!"
I'm tall so if a woman is sitting down I approach her and show her my palm and say
"Press my elevator button
...
buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz" until Im crouched at her level
...
Wait a sec, how
...
are you?"
If Im near stairs, I'll tap a girl on her shoulder and say, "who am I?" I then dramatically
jog up the stairs and when I reach the top, I start shadow boxing and dancing and putting
arms in the air like rocky and singing, "feeling strong now
...
" I run all the way back down and I show a girl my eye
...
etc
...
"Lets go get some bitches
...
" Even 'chicks' is to denote an irrelevance to

class and style, which is needed when presenting yourself to a woman
...

"Im going to bags some honeys
...
" By consistently using the words we would use in
FRONT of women while behind the scenes (like in this NG) we prepare ourselves to be
better equipped to present the proper classy attitude
...
Im not offended by words, but in order to create a more
classy image of our art, we must at some point remove the stereotypical shit
...
He uses INTRO SCRIPTING
...
His ROUTINES are natural, humorous and fun
...
He systematically FINDS the best places and
WORKS the rooms
...
Even the other
guys
...
So lets not KILL or
HURT anyone on this game of LOVE, but we will be disciplined like in a WARGAME
...
You know the game will be a four hour session
going in
...
Its not a
battle, its a game
...
See, in paintball, when I shoot someone, I don't yell out "DIE MOTHER FUCKER
DIE!!!!!!!!!" Its a game and not real war
...
So when you find yourself getting all
GUNG-HO about the game (all stressed out) fall back and realize it only a 4 our game
session and you wont die
...
Call them Ladies not
bitches, in the same way you would call your friends in a paintball match Skins or Colors
and not Gooks or the Enemy
...
poo-pee pants
...
"
"hello Suzy, your mommy couldn't make it this afternoon
...
my that's a pretty dress
...
" - good if the babe is a 10!
"shh! people can see us!"
"you drank too much last night didn't you?"
waiting for the subway - "don't fall onto the tracks - you'll make me late for work"

PULL MY FINGER NEG
this routine is a VERY GOOD one for girls who are 10s
...
They are SO USED to men behaving like boys and falling over them that
when you come and play that game (in a smiling playful way of course) it is a wonderful
NEG in a playful manner
...
:)" You are displaying EVERYTHING she WANTS in a man
...
Why would a guy be willing to do that? The only
possibility is that he is fucking crazy or that he is used to being with 10s
...
Tal was there as a witness and it was really funny and coy and cool of me
because here I am with a fucking 10 and I do this to her
...
You have the guts to
possibly BLOW it with her
...

10s cannot help being beautiful
...
Only everyone does not treat her like a normal person because of
it
...
You show her you are a man that doesn't BUY INTO her beauty
...
EVERY guy has said that before
...

# CLOSE
Always carry a pen and a pad of paper
...
Then ask her if she is
creative
...
Be creative
...
" tell them, "He's a hint
...
hint
...
We could market this idea and make millions
...
Say,
"What do you think? Creative?" She will say, "Oh YES, very!! :)"
ESP ROUTINE
OK, this is one from my personal stash, so if you use it, don't tell them you learned it
anywhere
...
Walk up to a girl and say,
"Do you believe in ESP?" Remember to SMILE or you may startle her
...
Don't say it
...
now take that
# and imagine that it is drawn on a blackboard in your head
...
we both have it
...
three
...
"all right, lets try this one
more time
...
Got it? Picture it in white chalk
on the blackboard
...
7
...
a 1 in 10 chance
...
"and of course I

don't stake my reputation on mere chance
...
"PROOF! ESP does NOT exist!" then start to laugh like this "Mooa
ha ha ha ha ha ha! And you believe in ESP!" a good neg to start
...

didn't know that
...
" (from Cheers) If you take the wording I have
and do this EXACTLY as stated, you will be surprised HOW well you will do
...
I DON'T KNOW
...
This is NOT a trick
...
If she wants you to do
this again, tell her
...
"
I use this and I swear I've laid 15 girls with this intro
...
Its playful, fun,
connects with their beliefs and when you get it right, you are SKILLED with some weird
intuition
...
50 girls in 1 week
...
3 to 4 girls an hour
...
FIND a good place packed with girls to save time between girls
...
Walk up to a girl with the photos in your
hand and say, "Check these out
...
" Start to show them and explain
them
...
Now look at this one, 3 people laughing
...
" Now this girl is looking at pictures
of you hanging with friends and surrounded by some girls, maybe you with a famous
person (not REAL famous but DJs and radio personalities) and one can be of your EXGIRLFRIEND who happens to be BETTER looking than the girl you are talking to
...
Go out and take pictures of you at a club
with friends
...
There, done
...

verbalize what your intentions are first
...
you
really wrecked a moment! Your boyfriends musta really hated that about you
...
" or "Kiss me
...
" or "stick your tongue out
...
This is MY personal favorite
...
I found just going for the kiss without indicating your intentions can
sometimes lead to embarrassment - more than her saying NO
...

her: you must pick up alot of women
...
would you prefer a man who is attractive to other
women or one who is only handsome in your eyes?
or
you: are you kidding? my girlfriends would KILL me if I did that!
whenever an approach with a girl crashes, you will see a blue light
...
say that with a Mexican accent now
...
Chocolates too
...
tell her you bought yourself some CDs and you knew she loved TITANIC
so you bought it for her
...
I was just being nice at the time but the reward was alot
more than just my feeling good for doing something nice for her
...

Think more
...
Or a cool pencil and tell her
that all the future art of hers is already inside this magic pencil
...
buy her a
portable game of stratego and tell her you want to learn to play it with her
...
And bands too
...

I some of take the "Thrice Spoken, Once Fulfilled" rule
...
you can go for the
touching and the whispering = and then the # close or better the kiss close
...
If a
girl grabs your arm and leans into you or puts her head on your = shoulder, that's a sign If
she leans in towards you for extended periods of time, or crosses her = legs towards you,
that is a sign
...
If it doesn't = change, don't bother
going in
...
These are all bad = signs
...

Here is yet another subtlety about the game
...
Really WORK the
room
...
Keep busy
...
You must change your location then
...
Working the room not only
satisfies the 'the more doors you knock on the more will open' axiom, but also 'strive to
appear very social
...
) They will wonder if you are taken or not
...
You will convey your wonderful personality to
them through interesting and humorous thoughts and anecdotes and it isn't until they
shows positive body language signs that you move in closer and tell them the other girls
are just 'interests'
...

When women see you surrounded by other women, it makes them see you in a sexual
light
...
AND
...
'My you come on strong' is something you can say if she happens to fix her
bra strap infront of you
...
Then immediately change the subject
back to something non-sexual
...
My mood
was usually due to something external like new career opportunity or meeting someone I
really admired or some cool shit like that
...
I almost ALWAYS got the girl
when I conveyed this vibrant positivity
...
So I tried to FAKE this mood
...
To tell a girl that her presence in
your life is just the icing to your cake makes her feel good to be part of your great day
...
:)" Then tell her what happened
...
Involve her
...
Nothing boring like you
just got an A in Gym though
...
It can't get any better
...
Be more into yourself and
your great day than into her
...

COMPLIMENT:
"You have
...
May I?" (Motioning to hold her hands
...
) "Do you feel it? (dramatically serious face)
...
(grin)" Mystery (modified from David Shade's homepage of a Ross Jefferies
opener)
The SECRET to getting in with a woman is this
...
That's it
...

Thing is, a talkative person gets WAY more lay than one who doesn't
...
Ever been in one? I was talkative today and I tell
you it WORKS
...
I just yakked their ear off
...
I would talk passionately about something
...
I
wouldn't talk about THEM
...
We always say we should get them
to talk
...
If they join into what you are yakking off about great but if
not, who cares
...
after the kiss you can ask them tons of questions
and get into their shit with them
...


STRIPPER RULES
Tell the girl you are a stripper too
...
You could say at least that you WERE one if
you don't have the body type "anymore", Ahem
...

RULE: the minute they dance for you for money you are a customer and they don't fuck
customers
...

RULE: don't buy her a drink or anything for that matter
...
use >> photos >>
>>cause they are so bored in there a little look at some pix in your >pocket >> is >>
>>welcome
...

RULE: use humor and don't HIT on her or compliment her
...

RULE: be slick on the CLOSE
...
Make them ask you! >> >>Better
yet, tell her you don't want to pick her up in club even though >you >> >>aren't a
customer (you are friends with the DJ you can sneak)
...
>> use >>
>>that
...
very interesting conversation threads stem from >these >>
>>supernatural beliefs
...
wear a pentacle - >most >>
>>strippers like rock music and long hair but some like dance music and >> short >>
>>hair
...

RULE: be BIG
...
don't think that the quiet >> >>seduction will
work in the club
...
Once you >> have >> >>intrigued her enough
to join you, she already decided she likes you
...
be a challenge
...

RULE: connect using 'so many people are so judgmental about things
...
Every approach has a beginning, a middle, and
an end
...
the MIDDLES you have in a day, the more experience you will get to get to the
END
...
clothing, gum, props initiate an entertaining and
interactive conversation (that is what an OPENER is all about) MIDDLE using
entertaining stories and routines, you convey the humor, confidence and the other typical
attractive traits (If you want to know what they are, write down the traits of YOUR
dream-girl and then convey THOSE traits to the girls) use NEGS to make them chase you
test them (stop conversation to see if they reinitiate it) and look for the indicators to see if
closing is worth doing (like KINO, pos body language, laughter, etc
...
decide on either the kiss close or the # close
...
but try to kiss her good-bye on the LIPS if you have a little time, always
KISS CLOSE
...
" Said only to a 10
...
then Im going to ask you for our #
...
I
think it can be perfected
...
I haven't used it but WILL because it is so
psychologically sound:
ME: "What are you looking for?" Say this as your first communication
...
unless you've already found it
...
)
OPENER: "What's it like to be a girl?" Say this sincerely (That's mine)
...
" "Just look around
...

joined by the hip blaster - choose gino
SOCIAL PROOF
I recognize that many if not most women are drawn to a man who conveys social proof
...
so can you in a limited way
...
from
then on I could tell she saw me in a whole new light
...
one must convey
social proof
...
Imagine an 8 is into you
...
5
...
5 in order to get the 9
...
that is pawning
...
its awesome to listen to what you said and
what her replies were
...
get a
microcassette player and tape ALL your approaches
...
So does a tape
...
" You scan the situation and say, "OK, here goes" and you
press record
...
When it is over, you press stop
...

you are going in not to get the girl but rather to perfect the pick-up so you can have the
PERFECT tape to play to friends
...
YOU are GOOD!"
Then you show them a picture of this girl that you fucked and she is a 10!
...
Getting GOOD at this
...
But its a PERFORMANCE ART
...
keep them in your pocket
...
is that a thumb? " then critique your pics as if the girl is merely
someone to talk to, you aren't HITTING on them
...
"notice
how the landscape pics are boring
...
See this one? boring
...

ohh, and I hate the ones where the guy in the photo is just standing there looking in the
camera
...
"
You have a choice from here
...
As long as you don't HIT on them in this first minute
or two of talk and you convey confidence, charisma, a good sense of humor, smile, are
well dressed and groomed (shave and trim!!!) and humorously neg hit the beauty of the
group, you are MONEY! BE the man they want
...
BE funny
...
BE a cool friend, not a SLIMEY PICK UP ARTIST (moaa hahaha)
...
move on
...
You will need to do this OPENING a good 50 times
before you understand the timing of this and HOW good it is
...
Bring I
microcassette recorder with you too to tape your approaches
...

Now, get out there are meet women - approach 12 girls in 1 day
...
You will have taken the material and turned it into ART
...
You have the material there (a great topic to go with) and you have to
work out the kinks LIVE
...

hiking
Get into day hiking
...
Tell them to
bring the food and you'll bring the drink
...

Hiking is good for keeping shape too and over time you'll feel more energy
...
Women are attracted to 'successful' men
...
Convey to her that you keep your schedule busy with lots of 'fun' things and not
just with work
...
It gives you something to
do together (assuming you are chasing quality women who workout daily)
...
Convey that you care for your body
because this shows you respect yourself
...

The photo routine
Take pictures of yourself in interesting situations
...
You doing FUN things
...
You rock climbing
...

The 'bear shit' from the bear you bumped into while hiking
...
Have some funny things to say about the pictures as you show them
...

OK so you at in the club at 10pm
...
If the place is
dead by 11:30pm you will leave for another place you have marked out for the night
...

RULE: The game begins right when you enter the place
...
"radiating the vibe" by the bar is
not acceptable
...
0% tolerance
...
They will most likely
be only 7s or 8s
...

Select Target
This is usually easy
...
Again the first 3 scenarios or MATCHES are going to be after
TARGETs rated 7 or 8 realistically
...

If you get good eye contact from her and she smiles FIRST, then you can approach with a
little more up front attitude
...
What intuition? Just read an astrology book at memorize one of the typical
generic passages
...

You have anywhere from 2 seconds to a minute to observe the scenario and decide what
TYPE of scenario the match is
...
If she notices you
...
Proceed to the next phase
...

Is the target alone? SINGLE SCENARIO
These are simplest but have a danger of turning into another scenario type instantly if her
friend(s) come to her side
...
If so, you must be dynamic enough to alter your approach so you are dealing
with this new TYPE
...

You approach her straight out
...
You can either obtain eye contact and go in
after that or not
...
You can approach her and when she
looks up at you, that is when you look her in the eye and smile
...
BUT: DO NOT get eye contact and not approach and think
you will use that eye contact later to approach her
...
No if you got eye contact in say a crowded room
where you were going one way and her another and the two smiled but the crowd made it
impossible to approach her and the music was too loud to talk or you were too distant
from each other
...
Nothing is PERFECT really, but
you want to minimize the time between the girl NOTICING you and your approaching
her
...

OK so you smile and enter
...

Don't go straight for the TARGET ever if she is not alone
...

You must win the OBSTACLE over first
...

When the TARGET begins to talk you can immediately NEG her then go back to the
OBSTACLE
...
It will also make the TARGET feel a little
self-conscious
...
Then she will be chasing YOU
...
Then finally take time out to pay attention to her
...
Because the obstacle likes you now, she will say yes
...
5 to 8 minutes tops usually
...
You have to make it clear once you see the
OBSTACLE likes you that you switch your attention over to the TARGET
...
Not anatomy but personality
...
I bet you're the leader of your friends
...
"
Is the target with two or more girls? GROUP SET SCENARIO
Same at the two set but you must disarm both OBSTACLES first
...
After you
won the OBSTACLES over and begun accepting the TARGETs attention, you can ask

the OBSTACLES if its all right to spend some time with the TARGET
...
In fact, they may even leave you two alone
...
Go in and approach the man
...
Once you have disarmed him, then you can ask "how do you know
eachother?" He will tell you
...
Remember to neg her politely in
front of him
...
The guy
will get out of the way and will watch you actually work the girl
...

ROUTINES
You must have some routines to perform for the obstacles
...
So you talk about things that interest the
people but the stories also convey the most attractive traits that women look for in a man
...

Well groomed (clothing, shoes, style, breath, shaved)
So you are telling stories to the friends and so she discovers all these traits as her friends
enjoy your company
...
She will
chase you and you will neg her several times making her friends think you are great and
making the TARGET chase you
...
She will
put on the charm
...
She has to beg for yours
...
And here are some of the strategies
...
Some men try to go
THROUGH the shield by being persistent despite the fact the woman is treating you
poorly
...
If you cant go THROUGH it, you can
do something else
...
This means to make the woman
believe your presence is not to steal her eggs
...
It should not take more than a couple minutes for her to realize you
have no interest in her sexually when you say things that an interested man wouldn't say
...

When do you know you have disarmed the shield?
When she laughs at your jokes
...
'
Shield disarmers
Use PAWNS
Pawns are other people in the situation of the evening that you surround yourself with
...

Use pawns to assist in your NEGS
...

NEGS
Don't display stereotypical pick up tactics
NO BEERS
NO LINES
FORMAT
FIND HER
APPROACH HER
GET PAST HER OBSTACLES
GET PAST HER SHIELD
CONVEY THE FOUR TYPICAL ATTRACTIVE QUALITIES A WOMAN LOOKS
FOR
TOUCH
GET THREE POSITIVE SIGNS TESTED
Did she laugh consistently at your humor
Did she initiate chat when you stopped talking
Is her body language positive?
Eject or CLOSE
there is no such thing as failure, only feedback
no such thing as failure, only feedback
ETHICS and PHILOSOPHY and SCIENCE
Metaphors in the PUA

talk about using many of them
...

Animals, wolf
chess, paintballs, jets
TIME
1 game = 12 engagements = 1 day = 4 hours
...

Metaphors: a strategy game
...
Go out ALONE if you cant bring a
pick-up buddy
...
Find a friend who wants to get a mate out there too
...
You will look even cooler
...
When I
went to a new city to live, I had to go out alone
...

This isn't a loser thing, this is in fact a FUCKING COOL thing
...
While out there you will make some guy
friends who hold
the same goals as you (in fact EVERY MAN, at some point in his life will wish to fuck a
girl you know
...
Its not a dirty thing
...
Its natural
...
Its human nature
...
You will use your LOGIC for this
...
What's good on a Tuesday? Mondays? Fri
...
Since you'll be going out 4 or 5 days a week
and entering into the antfarm collective on a regular basis, this lonely feeling will
dissipate a bit
...

See, if too many of these emotional indicators (behavioral motivators) are triggered, we
call that stress
...
Go out and approach
women
...
This is where it gets tricky
...
It seems to contradict
the first emotion (see our internal motivator circuits are very well calibrated to the
dynamics of social life - you are a fucking fined tuned engine - these emotions will
indicate to you what is most important whenever it gets in a situation it KNOWS
(through years of natural selection) is important to your genes' survival
...
You can walk up and say shit easily because
you have nothing to lose
...
But when a beautiful girl is near, your
brain will give you a STATE-CHANGE
...
This horny state is really a painful
bitch to deal with
...
When you watch titanic, even though its all fake it can make us cry
...
And just by SEEING a pretty girl you have a STATE-CHANGE
...
Horny is when you have a boner
...
Its some other state and Im not even sure what to call it
...
When she is

there and you want to talk to her you are MORE than nervous, you are AWARE
...
Right?
Imagine this: if you could CONTROL the two emotions LONELY and AWARE, if you
could become MASTER of these and HARNESS their power, like the way you have
mastered hunger, do you think you would be able to 'fill your stomach'? I swear to all of
you, I am a pretty rational guy
...
Im 26 and Im not a horny asshole player
...
There was a time I couldn't 'GET' girls
...
Or was I 21? fuck,
anyway
...
I thought, "Dude, you've got to get GOOD at this
...
This seems like a very important thing to solve
...
I considered how if I already had a girl Id be happy and wouldn't have to
chase
...
Im not going
to marry the first girl I meet
...
Prioritize your needs and values
...

FIND
I just got an ICQ message from a friend now >>I've discovered today a new
place to find girls
...
I asked the person working there if u could hold a little black
puppy, she hands it to me and these girls all flock around me =)
Cool, that I think is a VERY good place to hang out - you'll have to come up
with a really good sequence of interactive scripting to initiate with the
girls so your approach has context
...
or maybe a
Herman
...
If I followed you
home, would you keep me?" Something along those lines
...

ICQ GUY>>well nothing much since I had to leave fast
...
then I talked with 3 hot girls
about how much I wanted to PLAY with it and HUG it and so on
...
One of them though I was so sweet
since I said that when I got enough money I was going to buy it
...
none of them would have looked at
me twice in the going out sense
...
It was a cheap thrill while it
lasted =P
Yeah, ICQ guy is a teenager who is 16 and I suggested to him to chase

collage girls because he is Tal's cousin and I met him and I know he can get
away with picking up 18 year olds
...

I used to be able to approach women and chat
them up, OK it was nerve wracking but I made my self do it because I was so
very very lonely
and I wanted a girl
...
This state change, like I said, is a bitch
...
Then when you see her,
this invisible barrier in your head, this state change erects itself between
you and her
...
Too bad we didn't
have more trust between us pick up guys, we could post picks of ourselves to
see what we are dealing with and we could cater our focus on our image as
well
...
Maybe post our pics in alt
...
That way there is no PROOF of
the pics being us, but by the natural look of the pics, we could believe
they are real
...

3 second rule: you MUST initiate immediately
...

talk about ESP and its impossibility
talk about how you met a bear while hiking
talk about how you were scared shitless rock climbing when your rope snapped
or the time you visited your friends friend with him and your buddy was
almost beaten to death when the friend he visited had a boyfriend who came
out and there was a 20 minute car chase through lights and you were looking
for the cops but lot the crazed boyfriend before you found cops
...

the birds sound clearer now
...
what does SHE like? the music game modified
for all types of objects
...

talk about the time you were on stage
AWARE STATE
OK - what's the DEAL with the AWARE state? This nervousness when approaching a
girl? This hornyness
...
If on the other hand
you don't take her shit, give her some NEGS (learn about those in other posts) you will
SEEM like you don't HAVE this state change
...

OK, back to this invisible barrier: the AWARE state
...
Ever have a headache and you just
didn't bother telling anyone? They didn't know what you felt, did they? Well, if you
HIDE the fact that your AWARE state is in full blown ON position, and pretend like you
don't have this with them (NEG them in a fun way) they will see you as hard to get and
different and they will try to make you like all the rest
...
That is the psychological switch that makes what I do work so well
...
I did it yesterday to a girl
...
In my mind Im thinking, "oh god I want her
...
She had
me BEFORE hello
...
Only a man of quality would make
that happen
...

So to conclude my ramblings, LONELY is good
...
Dress up and get out
...
No
more than 4 (10pm to 2am)
...
Solution? since she doesn't
KNOW you have this, you must HIDE this fact and behave AS IF you didn't have this
...

YOU: "Can I buy you a drink?"
HER: "Yes, thanks
...

phone #
kiss
go home
I would like to share some valuable dating tips for single men gained
from my experiences in dating women:
TIP #1 - People go on dates to have a good time, not to be serious
...
Do things slightly
different than the norm
...
Go to see classic
films
...
In other words, try to set
yourself apart from al of the other guys
...
So
avoid the same old thing, or add a slight variation to what she is
used to
...

TIP #3 - End the date before she does
...
When
the evening is still going well and still on an "up note,: announce
that you "
...
" This is going to surprise her
because most guys hang on until the bitter end hoping that by some
miracle they will end up in bed with her
...
" Briefly, a polyamorous person is one who
feels it is natural to romantically love more than just one person at a time
...

Polyamory is about love, without constraint by the dictates of society, defined only by the
parameters that we, as individuals, impose upon it
...
Please be positive,
open minded and honest
...

yes - talk about POLYAMORY in a SERIOUS way - get on the net and learn
about
> it and then THROW the word around like its NORMAL and that YOU are
> polyamorous
...

>
Here's an edited version of a pattern a guy used to seduce an openly
bi-sexual woman:
Have you ever thought about the differences between Bi-sexual girls and ordinary
girls? Admittedly, when I was first exploring, bi-sexual women, I was drawn to them
because I liked threesomes, and of course, I still do
...
as I really got to know these
women, I discovered so much more, so much I never realized was there
...
Bisexual women have openness, a freedom, a sense of adventure that is incredibly rare
...
Because they realize, they know, on a very deep level, that in this physical form,
we are sexual beings, but they also have another side
...
And sometimes when you meet someone, and it is really
special, you can almost imagine a cord of this light extending from you to them
...
That deep connection, that eternal bond, like you have always known this
person, as if, they have always been with you
...
And maybe it is like a doorway, a
window of opportunity to experience all the passion, excitement and exhilaration you
really need
...
This
is an understanding that bi-sexual women have above all others and it is incredibly
attractive
...
is that they like a man who
is in control but not controlling
...
", this could be the start of something big!

LESS IS MORE
By ending the get together before she does, you:
1
...

2
...

3
...

4
...


3S RULE: 3 second rule
The Science of Attracting a woman takes more than a good line and good dance moves
...
If one is her brother, he must like you enough to not
become an obstacle
...

Obstacles
1 - find her
go to public gatherings
2 - an acceptable situation to introduce yourself
woman sitting at bar with 2 friends, both ugly girls
1 girl
2 girls
1 girl, 1 guy
1 girl, 2 guys
3 girls
3 - other friends
they are talking and smiling
pay more attention at first to the others, always!
show them a neat science toy and show them how it works and tell them where you got it
be more into yourself than her
check out my scheduler - look at this - it does this
...
Don't use anything obvious to your intentions
...
Don't buy a girl a flower
...

What attracts a person to another?
The person is interesting
...
If you meet a girl and start giving knock knock jokes, that would seem
interesting but in a
...

Be entertaining - that is interesting
...

The second day
Most people believe that calling a girl the next day is too needy
...
Never
ask them out on a date though
...
Videos are too soon
...
The more likely she is already
taken and is only flirting
...
However, the more practice you get at
...
I merely talked
...
I killed a dove on stage
...

The question game, the music game, magic effects, etc
...
The story
should show you as a sincere, honest, confident, adventurous, entertaining, level-headed
guy, and most of all, a great time
...

Compliments:
never give a complement that you believe has been said to that person before
...
g
...
" Instead, say "You have such
an expressive personality
...
There
are a million women who are beautiful, Christ, I just came back from Florida, but how

many do you think have an outgoing personality like yourself? I'm telling you, that's a
very attractive quality and a valuable asset
...
That is in fact a difficult thing to do
...
Stephanie Alexander, Maxim (http://maximmag
...
Women are used to receiving compliments,
not giving them
...

* She's disagreeing but laughing
...
If she weren't, she'd simply "Uh-huh" you into oblivion
...
She's not allowing the blasting music to come
between the two of you
...

* She laughs at your lame junior high school-level jokes
...
Or
maybe just drunk
...
Touch her back in the equivalent place, and let her up the
ante, just in case her touch was an accidental slip of the hand
...
If you run to drain the monster and she's still where you left her when
you return, you're doing something right
...

* She doesn't flinch
...
Don't blow it, pal
...
She's angling for an invite
...


PRACTICE: document my pick-ups - borrow Rick's tape recorder
NAME:"may I call you sally? you can call me Mr
...
" - great is the girl is a
10!
"If I follow you home, will you keep me?"
"so how do you like me so far?"

"the voices in my head told me to come talk to you
...
she asked me to pick you up
and take you home
...
would you like some candy?"
"you have an interesting figure
...

The woman of your dreams? A porn star? A model? A threesome? A lifestyle of
women?
ATTRACT
BEAUTIFUL women and how many DON'T have boyfriends because guys think they
DO
...

Tell the girl,
"I don't believe you
...
you
meet all these guys and you know they are just approaching you because of their
internal programming
...

And you have to deal with all the shit
...
I bet you are internally
a pretty lonely girl
...
She will ask what they are
and you will say, "I have 3 or them
...
" If she agrees, tell her to cook
some popcorn and then run out and rent some movies - girlie flicks
...
Tell her you want to be ALONE with her too
...
If she is busy say, all right then Im sorry to hear that
...
And then tell her the movies - all
good movies SHE'D like to have seen
...
say to her
...
come here
...
If she is hesitant she will say, "what about the movie?" And you say, "I rented
them for THREE days
...
Stick your tongue out
...
See?
Would you like to sit down by the lake - of course you would, it's nice and private down
there
He takes his tic tacs out and dumps two into his hand
...

"should we become boyfriend and girlfriend I want us to become really good friends
too
...
so we can enjoy eachother
...
"
you know what I really want to do right now? go back to your car and continue this
...
you taste so good
...
You: "I've decided
...
"
them: "oh really"
you: "yes
...
Imagine two tongues on yours
...
"
say, "because I want to hold you"

she says "WHY" you

INTRODUCING YOURSELF
don't give your name
...

DRINKS
"will you buy me a drink?"
"no
...
but you can buy ME one
...
If not you say, "pleasure meeting you" and turn
your back to her again
...
you are neg hitting
them again just when they thought she was negging YOU
...
" :)
TESTING
HER:"Do you promise to call?"
HIM "If you promise to answer
...


HIM "well you can watch me drink
...
"
astrology:
what sign are you? when she says this is a point towards your being IN
...
"
when she makes a guess what it is say, "wow, how'd you know?"
see? Don't disagree with a belief
...
"
HER "who is Diane?"
HIM "oh she's a really good friend and we used to go out but we are good friends and
while we aren't an item, I know she still loves me very much and some interesting
emotions take place in her brain when she sees other women taking interest in me
...
I had a
girlfriend for a tike since Diane and Diane had never met her because of this - but
we are still very good friends
...

"so why are you talking to me?" the girl may say (yet another neg hit
...

"didn't mean to
...
This is a test to see if SHE will laugh then turn you around back to her
...
Don't
let it hit you in the ass as you leave, mmm'kay?"
"I prefer not to discuss it
...
"
"I don't know you that well
...
then say the evolution thing
...

"I do not know you that well"
"I can't imagine why you wouldn't want to
...
"Look, I don't have much time, I
thought you would enjoy seeing me, and if that's all the enthusiasm you have about it,
well I'm not going to waste my time
...
Are you always like that? Your ex boyfriend must have hated that
...
Ill call you next time Im bored
...

"let's just be friends and you can introduce me to chicks that I might LIKE fucking and I
will hook you up with guys that YOU might like too
...
I mean 0% kino
...
It really throws them that you have such control
...

her: no not so fast
...
(get up)
her: where you going
...
Ill be back (go make a tea) her: (alone)
...
the bathroom is down the hall
...
if she goes,
you are about to get laid
...

PHONE TACTICS
I say "Look
...
I don't want to hear apologizes
...
You know it, and I know it
...
Don't talk to me again until you're at my front door
...
"
you just say "SHUT UP don't tell me that you didn't want to play

chess with me?"

"you know, I liked you because I thought you were spontaneous and honest, but now I'm
disappointed to realize that you can't admit freely how you feel about me
...
:)"
COMPLIMENTS
"You're a great conversationalist"

BOYFRIEND
You have a boyfriend
...
And since it's obvious that's the case here,
might I inquire when is the wedding? I mean, since he's meeting EVERY DESIRE you
have, exactly the way YOU NEED IT FULFILLED, you must be planning on marriage,

right
...
That's so sweet
...
befriend him
...
You need it
...
Don't put
him down nor disrespect him by ignoring him
...

if you think your boyfriend would feel threatened by your meeting new people maybe we
shouldn't bother getting to know eachother
...
Im confused - you don't have to
feel insecure around me
...

YOU: If you think your boyfriend would feel THREATENED by your meeting
new people maybe we shouldn't bother getting to FREELY know
eachother
...
"
You reply, "Do you like cheesecake? Do you? with raspberries? If I get a small
cheesecake, would you like to share it with me? Im really craving cheesecake
...


and he will look like a fool

you taken good care of my girl?
SOCIAL PROOF
I recognize that many if not most women are drawn to a man who conveys social proof
...
so can you in a limited way
...

from then on I could tell she saw me in a whole new light
...

one must convey social proof
...
Imagine an 8 is
into you
...
5
...
5 in order to get the
9
...
that is pawning
...
I did tonight
...
By becoming the center of attention,
other girls will see this
...

Be entertaining
...

CLOSE
...

the girl
...
And
then do the asking if she wants to kiss you close
...
Then get her #
...
clothing, gum, props
initiate an entertaining and interactive conversation
(that is what an OPENER is all about)
MIDDLE (5 to 10 minutes)
using entertaining stories and routines, you convey the humor,
confidence and
the other typical attractive traits
use NEGS to make them chase you
test them (stop conversation to see if they reinitiate it) and
look for the
indicators to see if closing is worth doing
(like KINO, pos body language, laughter,
etc
...

decide on either the kiss close or the # close
...
but try to kiss her good-bye
on the LIPS
if you have a little time, always KISS CLOSE
...

Women have MTV mentalities
...
25 is the MAX BTW - it should be 15 min
...
Close at 15 is best - over that and you enter
damage zone
...
If its any longer than that, you fucked it up and its HIGHLY
unlikely you can FIX the fuck up
...
Realistically, you should go for the 1 hour but 10
minutes
works nicely too when you are good - like me :) What I mean also is that the time
counts only when you are WITH her
...
That is your hour
...

So 2 hours is DEFINITELY the DEADZONE
...
TRY and fail
...
Think about WHERE they are
...
Then
work tonight on MEET phase
...
Then talk about how Elvis died his hair black and his hair was
naturally blond and how that just seems weird to you
...
No harm done is chatting about Elvis
...

NEVER show signs of your HITTING on her
...
If she starts talking,
use a small NEG HIT
...
it IS
NONE OF HER DAMN BUSINESS and you don't owe her an answer
...

"I prefer not to discuss it
...
"
Rock climbing
Become involved in 'interesting' activity
...
Go ONCE and you 'rock climb' from her perspective
...
Don't bring them to a
movie (that is a date and dating is not until after you have been intimate with them)
...
It allows you to be together where you control the
situation
...
You can encourage her as she climbs which makes her
feel proud of herself
...
Her life is literally in your hands so
she will begin feeling 'safe' with you
...
Go once with regular friends to see
what's up there and make sure you get the name of your instructor because when you go
in with the girl you can say, "Hey is Jack around?" Makes you seem part of the 'rock
climbing community'
...

PEACOCKING
here are some ways you can visually stand out
...
wear make up if you are so boring looking
that you get nothing spray sparkles in your hair put on really strong fragrance (elevator
clearing) wear a pentacle

Additional Information:
list of other products and such
Emotions are preprogrammed behavioral modifiers hardwired into your brain through
120,000 years of natural selection in human evolution
...
In other words, instead of looking at
emotions as limiters, look at them as indicators telling you what your body believes is
MOST IMPORTANT to you
...
And so the humans with the HUNGER gene would
have an evolutionary advantage and replicate more, giving off more HUNGER gene
babies than the non-HUNGER gene babies who many times died sooner
...
So, when you are
lonely, this is a strong indicator that something must change
...
Some people even TRY to
do that
...
Thing is, notice how this emotion will motivate you to get the fuck out of your
house for a change? If you are lonely, this is a great sign that your body and your mind
(these are not two separate things as your brain is a part of your body) are functioning
properly and it is telling you (like HUNGER) that you will increase your selfish gene's
chance of survival (by replicating) if you get out and hunt
...
Thing is, imagine if you DIDNT
masterbate again until you got a girlfriend
...
SO how do we use these two emotions to motivate us in proper ways? Use your
reasoning to prioritize what is important to you in a global lifelong perspective
...
We are ants in a colony of 7 billion
...
But it wasnt 'designed' to
...
See? Humans too are not designed to live
in a lonesome enviroment
...
Our
enviroment INCLUDED other humans and we adapted motivators to deal with others
...
Disciplined focus
...
build a plan
...
Go out ALONE if you cant bring a pick-up

buddy
...
Find a friend who wants to get a mate out there too
...

You will look even cooler
...
When I went to a
new city to live, I had to go out alone
...
This isn't
a loser thing, this is in fact a FUCKING COOL thing
...
While out there you will make some guy friends
who hold the same goals as you (in fact EVERY MAN, at some point in his life will wish
to fuck a girl you know
...
Its not a dirty thing
...
Its
natural
...
Its human nature
...
You will use your LOGIC for this
...
Whats good on a tuesday? mondays? fri and sat nite is always good
somewhere but tuesday nite places are harder to find
...
A very good start and a needed bandaid
...
Your body
has asked you to relieve your stress
...
The stress will begin
to dissipate
...
There is another internal hardwired motivator
circuit that 'seems' to get in the way
...
So when you meet a girl that is ugly, nothing happens
...
(In fact, because
this is so easy, I suggest meeting lots of ugly women to start your day because it gets you
rolling and you can always make friends - they might have a sister or a party to invite you
to)
...
A
state is an emotional state like lonely or anger or HORNY
...
This is what all the pick up artists talk about when they discuss
STATE-CHANGES
...

That is a state change
...

Now, this state isnt really horniess
...
If you dont have an
erection, the state isnt horny
...
We
could call it AQUIRED or LOCKED-ON or even better AWARE
...
Pulse quickens, I
personally feels a wonderful sensation of butterflies in my stomach (still to this day even yesterday when I met Tat) and your mind races for 'things to say'
...
I am guided by reason and humanity and not by mythical being or
forces
...
I love life and care for people and have
close friends and think things through
...
I had such
a low self-esteem and I was 20 before I had my first kiss
...

so I snapped
...
This is too stressful
...
" I figured that I could hope that a relationship
would drop in my lap and I wouldnt ever have to deal with getting good at picking up

girls
...
But
then I thought, "NO! I have to MASTER this for a LIFETIME
...
That isnt realistic? Im young, I cant KEEP a girlfriend when I dont know
anything about them
...
Put girls up there with sleep and
food and stop abstaining from things that should be in your life as matter of fact
...
=) ANY pet store! HOLY CRAP i walk in and i was surronded
...
Something like, "Isnt he cute? What would you name
him if he was yours? He looks like a George
...
What would you
name ME if you brought me home
...
Tell her youve been working on your puppy dog eyes and
ask her to critique them
...
but
basicly i walked in and picked up the cutest puppy
...
PLus i smiled and handed to
a couple of them
...
Yea! hehe but they were all like 22-28 years old
...
oh well
...
Consider the above scripting outlines the next time yo ugo
in there ICQ guy
...
demon
...
uk wrote>I used to be able to approach women
and chat them up, ok it was nerve wracking but i made my self do it because i was so
very very lonely and i wanted a girl
...
This state change, like I said,
is a bitch
...
Then when you see
her, this invisible barrier in your head, this state change erects itself between you and her
...
Too bad we didnt have
more trust between us pick up guys, we could post picks of ourselves to see what we are
dealing with and we could cater our focus on our image as well
...
Maybe
post our pics in alt
...

That way there is no PROOF of the pics being us, but by the natural look of the pics, we
could believe they are real
...
OK - whats the DEAL with the
AWARE state? This nervousness when approaching a girl? This horniness
...
If on the other hand you dont take her shit, give
her some NEG HITS (learn about those in other posts) you will SEEM like you dont
HAVE this state change
...
Shadowhawk>>okay
...
If i finaly get a girl
...
i don't wanna get aids and shit
...
Talk about it
...
If not your BEST friend
...
Promise yourself NOT to
go out with younger
...
Where a condom
...
Carry at least
one on you (its more symbolic right now I think) but not in your wallet as it can wear
from plastic bubble? Put it in there (the small one) and this will make you think about sex
as fun, which it should be and not scary
...
YES
...
Tell her that you've been thinking about sex (you ARE 16) and
you are thiking about the WHAT IF scenario
...
You will want to bring girls home and parents will
OBJECT BIGTIME if you dont discuss your fears with them
...
Tal
brought a girl home when he was 15 and his mom caught them in bed in the morning
...
You cant IGNORE it because fuck its a
strong state, but what you CAN do is HIDE it
...
They will in fact chase YOU!
That's it
...
Its is in fact
the biggest secret going in picking up girls
...
She BEGGED for
my #
...
" Fuck, I approached HER
...
But I made her work to get me
...
In fact, Ive been tricking this for so long that Im starting to think that maybe
I AM a man of quality - this is a subject Ill contemplate with my self-esteem
...
solution
...
Get out 4 or 5
days a week and get into public gatherings for at least 2 hour sets if not more
...
Secondly, AWARE state is good
...

You will be considered different and trhe NEG HITS will in fact intrigue her making her
think you must hang with lots of beautiful girls if you can treat a 9 or a 10 like a friend
and not a BABE
...
Now fuck off!!"
Shadow Hawk>>i was out last night and today driving around town exploring
...
NO WHERE that i can go! i meant the only place i can
go is skewl and the mall
...
Tere was one group of girls
but when i approached them (they were older) they looked at me and grined a (Awww
thats so cute) look
...
Walk up to
them and say
...
Im not hitting on any of you
...

I cant find places where there are girls
...
" Be
sincere and honest
...
The best way to find out something
...


A Conversation with Mystery
Topics Include: The Kiss Close, clubbing alone, handling guys, being a story-teller,
preparation & format and quality vs
...
Once you have three indicators of
interest (she touches you, laughs consistantly at your jokes, leans in towards you, smiles a
lot and keeps eye contact, resumes chat when you force silence, etc) you then phase shift
...
Go from humorous and non-sexual to saying, "Stop
...
She will say either say, "Uh no",(which is unlikely as you don't bother performing "The Kiss Close" until enough
indicators are present) or, "I donno" (they rarely say, "Yes")
...
So you reply, "Lets
find out", then go in slowly and kiss her
...
If she says,
"Why?", this is also a yes
...
Would you like to kiss me?" Wait again for her response
...
You just had that look in your eye
...
When he gives it to you, throw it
away as you say, "Fetch
...
Nice!
Lego: What if he's bigger than you?
Mystery: I'd instead call him on his disruptive shit and remark, "Dude, what are you
attempting here?" Not good enough? Then say, "Ladies? Shall we discover what
adventure awaits us in another room?"
Wakeboarder: Man, none of my buds want to go to the club
...

Mystery: Go alone
...
I go solo many times
...
It's weird if it's a first
night but if I've been there before it's cool
...
and yet, staying home alone will make you feel so much
better? Go out alone, meet some cool dudes when you get there (they will become your
wingmen there) and then run around getting #'s
...
Whatever happened to the concept, "The alphamale gets all the women?" Shit
dude, what are you, a mommas boy? Do you need your hand held?
Lego: How do you strike up conversations with guys?
Mystery: Walk up and say, "Hey dude, question for ya
...
"
Lego: Good! You should be able to relate to guys to disarm them
...

Gamer: LOL
...
My friends psych me out too
much because they never help
...
They laugh at me or just generally piss me off
...

It forces you to approach
...

Lego: Damn! I couldn't have put it better myself
...

Mystery: You wont be alone for more than five minutes once you approach your first set
anyways
...
Demonstrate your
alphamale characteristics
...

Mystery: Be a story-teller - THAT is the skill of the PUA
...
It is my personal belief that SS patterns arent as 'hypnotic' as they
are 'entertaining' stories
...
They just follow that
lead
...


Mystery: Here's an example
...
and we came along some trail and there
was shit on the path
...
" they thought I was just scared of shit and I said,
"Girls, you dont get it
...
Its bear shit
...
Look at the size of that turd
...
NOT talking sex with them makes them
question whether you are interested in them
...
If they like your great personality (confident, humorous,
etc) they will give you subtle but distinct clues
...

Talk your fucking HEAD off
...
Ever find yourself excited about something and you talk and talk and
talk? THAT is what must happen to get a girl
...
Look
talkative yet not desperate
...

Lego: Dude, I had that going last night
...
That's an excellent example
dude
...
It's a cool
story but my delivery sucked and I was losing one of the two girls I was telling it to
...
Its a good thing to have flexible stories to
allow for some comment but it's not nessessary
...

It's your audiences job to listen,laugh and generally be entertained
...
At the end
of 10 minutes you will see the girls digging you (positive indicators)
...

Lego: HOW DO YOU PHASE SHIFT? I've been wondering this
...

Alpha: Lego, you ad libbed the close? So working on ad libbing is good?
Mystery: Ad libbed material is not as accurate in closing as is performing the well
constructed and field-tested "Kiss Close" routine
...
Have your material, like a good comedian, prepared before
performing
...

Gamer: Heh
...
If you don't know
what the next routine is going to be then you may end up with an unfortunate pregnant
pause which fucks up your pacing
...
um
...
After all, with your particular
close, she could have pulled away from your trying to kiss her
...
In
other words, stop her in mid-sentence and with a curious tone, kiss close
...
Lego, what indicators clued you in that she wanted the kiss?
Alpha: In what way can you be prepared? If we're talking about story-telling in front of a
random girl we just met seconds ago in a random place
...
Sometimes
certain routines fit the situation better than others
...
Can you give me a brief example of how you go about preparing?
Mystery: Sure
...
Write down a list of openers
(just the headings of each opener to remind you)
...
Memorize 3 NEGs too
and you are good to go
...
)
Alpha: Man, you provide some really eye-opening ideas
...

Wakeboarder: So what you're saying is have a routine set up and modify it to each
situation? Kind of like having a PU template?
Mystery: It's ALL about format
...
If you now what the
next step is in the PU, you wont feel scared
...

Wakeboarder: Yeah like FMAC? That's a simple format
...
Each letter in FMAC is an abrupt phase shift
...
It takes effort
for many people to do bother getting THIS FAR
...

"There she is! 3, 2, 1, GO!" In the "ATTRACT" phase, you need to go from the walk up
to the TALKATIVE performer entertaining story-teller
...
Finally you must then "CLOSE"; to phase shift
from humour to serious is also abrupt
...
When a comedian finishes one topic and just goes into an entirely new unrelated
topic, the audience doesn't care as long as the next topic is entertaining
...

Gamer: Cool
...

Alpha: Do you believe in the 80/20 'rule'? Meaning, 80% of the quality women are found
in 20% of the right places or connections or situations
...
Quality is difficult to QUANTIFY
...
INSTEAD
consider that there are HOTTIES and UGs (YOU get to decide based on your personal
criteria) and of the HOTTIES, some have pleasant personalities and others do not
...
So go out
...
Judging her by the way she treats you on your approach is lame because
particularly beautiful women all have their bitch shields up and running
...

They aren't planning on fucking every guy that says Hi to them
...
It's not personal
...
So is the "I have a boyfriend excuse, but that's a different story
...
You don't actually have to CALL the girls of
course
...
Getting a girls number is merely an
OPTION
...

Keen: Heh
...
Kind of makes
you approach too! You can't say the bull shit line, "She's not my type, I can tell", to get
you out of approaching
...
I'm writing a book though called The Mystery Method
...

Ascence: Hey, is it true that the older we get the more money/social status becomes and
issue?
Mystery: No matter what social status you have (or THINK you have), it's still something
you must convey in the first 25 minutes of meeting her
...
The issue is, can we congruently convey our social status (real or
not) in our performance? That's OUR responsibility
...
How? Well, if you talk about having girls

always falling for you for instance, it's not NEARLY as good as actually having a couple
hot girls with you saying what a hottie you are infront of the target
...

Keen: I'm going to try doing the story-telling that you talked about
...
I'm a real bad storyteller
...
that's my lesson today
...
The security guard thought you were trying to
make it with the manequin and called you a little freak
...

Wakeboarder: One more question for you Mystery
...
:)

Appendix A
Acronyms and abbreviations
Glossary of Terms
AFC = "Average Frustrated Chump" (i
...
a guy who is not a pickup artist, and doesn't get
laid very often)
...
HB =
"Hot Babe" Hentai = A Japanese word with no real English equivalent
...
I
...
straight missionary style sex is not Hentai, but
looking at a girl's ass in super mini shorts is
...
Kino = Physical
contact; i
...
kissing, touching, squeezing her ass, hugging, holding hands, rubbing her tits,

...
etc LJBF = "Lets Just Be Friends"
...
Usually happens to AFC's who don't
know how to do a proper pickup and seduction
...
) Nice Guy =
see AFC explanation above NG = "Newsgroup" (i
...
alt
...
fast) NLP = "Neuro
Linguistic Programming"
...
More
can be found in the book "Trance-formations ISBN 0-911226-23-0"
...
Use chicks who won't lay you but
still want to see you, for this purpose
...
PU = Pick Up (i
...
a pick up a girl in a bar/club) PUA = Pick Up Artist Ross Jeffries

= See "SS" term below
...
Means the same
thing as "Nanpa" above
...
SS = "Speed
Seduction"
...
See his site at
www
...
com for more Info on SS
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